I'm guessing the odds of getting out of the Indonesian shit hole increased dramatically when he went from a mail order groom to a mail order bride.

If this guy's intention was to marry a woman, any woman will do, and stay married...then I accept his behavior. I'd think its rare that a man would have that idea of marriage though.

What?

No one marries a woman just because she's a woman. There are other factors involved.

Oh, I get it.

You're saying that he didn't marry her solely on the idea of her being a woman, so once you remove that criteria, then he has no reason to divorce her without being an asshole.

Is that right?

Huh? What he married wasn't and isn't a woman. It's a guy who has had (apparently) his boy parts cut off to make it look like a woman. Since it didn't tell the guy that it used to be a male, it's deception.

Indeed there are, but that's a rather important part piece of the deal, no?

Uh, no.

Of course it is.

If you're using "based on deception" to mean "began with deception" then I'd have to agree.

If you're using "based on deception" to mean "the majority of the relationship is grounded in deception" then I'd disagree. The majority of their presumably happily-married time together is based on so many other factors: their compatibility, their romantic moments, their legitimate enjoyment of each other, etc.

This is bullshit.

I know of three older men who imported mail order brides and at least 4 old retired farmers who moved in the first female they could find who did dishes and sucked cock.

I thought about this for ~3 minutes and came up with at least 6 men who married the first vagina they could buy, I'm sure there are thousands more.

It should be fairly easy, some Ketchup and acting a total bitch for a few days isn't exactly Quantum Physics. Also of note it isn't Monica it's Monico.

Dude, can you and me hang out sometime?

One of my good friends has just gone trans this past year. It's been a trip watching him change over, and it's still hard to adjust to seeing sometimes. He's made some very stupid decisions... He lost his wife, his good job, his savings, his assets, and the majority of his friends. After hearing the emotional and physical abuse he has dealt with by his Jehovah Witness parents among other things, I really cannot judge him/her and fully support his decision to become what he has always felt inside. The thing is, just because he feels that he should've always been a female, does not change the way he has always cared for and been there for everyone else in his life. It's been sad watching a person that has been so giving, get rejected by everyone he's given to.

Here is a big fuck you to all of you motherfuckers who are all high and mighty.
Take a look in the mirror and judge yourself because you never know what's going on in the heart and soul of those whom surround you, even your closest friends.

At first, this statement seemed like it was obviously true.

Sadly, though, he's absolutely right. I've met plenty of people who were either too lazy, too apathetic, lived somewhere with almost no options, or were just so completely undesirable that they had to settle for any female they could get.

That is insane