Setting aside obvious sexy things like cleavage-showing outfits, lingerie, a healthy curiosity about other women, etc....


Suspenders. Suspenders are the sexiest non-sexy thing a woman can wear. Rowwwwwwr (making clawing actions with my hand).

Vests. I love a woman in a vest.

Jeans tucked into calf-fitting boots (not those clunky Uggs). Or long skirts with calf-fitting boots. Honestly, pretty much anything with calf-fitting boots.

Hair that is roughly jaw-length, and which curls around to expose the ears. Or even better, only one ear. It's even more sexy when she occasionally reaches up to tuck an unruly lock back behind her ear.

An upper lip that naturally curls into a small smile even she's not smiling.

Eyebrows that arch upward into a look that partway between worry and sympathy.

No lipstick, or at the least, not red lipstick. (Red lipstick is too overt.)

The best makeup is the kind where you aren't quite sure it's makeup and think that maybe she has fantastic skin. It shouldn't be obvious that it's makeup.

A voice that's a bit higher-pitched than one would expect, but not shrill.

A tight-fitting lacy top that goes up to the neck, like 19th-century schoolteachers wore. The lace and tight fit imply sexiness, but the high neck implies that you'll have to work for it.

Those little white Keds. They make any woman's feet sexy. Don't know why, but they do. It's like she's a secret ballerina or something.

Red horn-rimmed glasses. But that may just be a byproduct of always seeing Sabrina wearing those with matching red shoes in college. That was one sexy engineer, my friends, one sexy engineer.



Things that don't work.

Putting one's hair up in a bun, particularly if it's directly on top of one's head. Pretty much the fastest way to uglify yourself if you're a woman. No man likes a bun on top of a woman's head, and I don't think most men like a bun in back.

Blue eye shadow. Or green.

Those bangs that stick up in front. What's the deal with those?

Underwear showing. I don't like to see bra straps. I don't like to see underwear sticking out the back. Underwear as translated from Latin means "Worn under other stuff", hence the word "underwear".

ankle bracelets if your a leg man.........

Would you prefer that rack with her hair up or down?

long, shaved legs are a turn on for me. long hair can be a turn on. short, pixy hair can be a turn on. nipples are a turn on. areolas are a turn on.

Guys just want chicks that look hot. If you want a good looking guy... go to the gym repeatedly until you look good in a bikini... then you can have most any guy. Cuz guys just wanna ****.

My wife was watching the Ugly Truth last night... and that line like that was in there.

We mostly don't care about personality.

vaginas turn me on.

I could give a **** less.

I think it's pretty much common sense.

Most women look better with a little makeup than with none.

Most women look a little better with their hair done nicely than not.

Most women look a little better in a nice tight dress than in jeans and a shirt (although the proper body can rock a pair of jeans).

Most women look even better in said dress if it's thigh-high and bare-shouldered and revealing some cleavage.

Really, though, I don't think most guys give a crap about the trimmings. Which IS something you should be taking away from this discussion. I can't speak for other guys but, for me, if I find a woman attractive, I find her attractive. The first thing I look at on a woman is her face. If that passes the approval test, I let my eyes drift down the torso to the hips, legs, and butt. What she wears? If it helps accentuate the parts I'm interested in, great. But it's not a deal-breaker.

Are you asking this for a particular point? Are you wondering if there's something you should do to change your appearance or look "sexier" or more attractive? Because, without seeing the whole package, there's no way for anyone to give you a good opinion. Every woman has her own attributes. Some have great legs but bony shoulders: so, show the legs and hide the shoulders. Some have thunderthighs or no hips, but a great rack: so, don't accentuate the lower half, but let the puppies get some air. :shrug:

No, actually. Well not directly. I was talking with a male someone about how to effectively pick up a guy one doesn't know. He was giving me pointers on the styles of clothes guys tend to like on women, what kinds of shoes are cute or sexy, etc. I thought I'd see if a populous of guys might mention a few of the same types of things he did. I know it's more about how I portray myself (confidence, sense of humor, buying him numerous shots, etc). But how do I wrap the package in the best way possible to get his attention? I was curious.

Bald?

Black lace underwear under a little black dress, a discreet necklace that just barely touches her cleavage, and those "I'm the hot geek" glasses....and consentually-worn handcuffs.







...and I'm sure I could think of another accessory for her.

Is this dude a bundle of sticks? Your lack of confidence=turn off, clothes and shit wont help unless you dont believe it yourself

Look at the photo above of the woman with the legs showing. It's not just the outfit; it's the attitude she is conveying with it. She wouldn't have that expression or demeanor in say, a business suit, or sweats and an oversized pull on shirt, would she? It's a combination of three things, your physical looks, and clothes that can accentuate them, and the way you carry yourself in said outfits.

I think THAT would get his attention rather quickly.:LOL:

I'm sorry...a guy was telling you about what style of shoes were "cute"? Yeah, um...trust the Planet on this one. Really.

Clothes fit (properly)? Check.
Hair, stylish? Check.
Smell, good? Check.

Oh, tan is good.
General fitness level? Good. Clothes can help mask this, though.