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Its wrong if your with a significant other, becuase that shit can turn out to be much much more then just internet flirting.
Its not a bad thing one of my best friends is a chick i have met from a chat room back in like 1996. She comes down to visit every so often. Hell, once she brought her friend with her, and me and her friend hooked up nd ated for a while, before i ****ed it all up. Should have kept her, she was so damn nice. Oh well, mistakes people make. lol |
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There is a simple answer to your query, Mer.
Its because while women have half the brains....they have ALL the cooter. |
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Oh wait, is that flirting??? |
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BTW, I never did get your opinion on online flirting... |
Is this your way of telling us to leave Red alone? If so, just come out and say, "Guys, I don't appreciate ya'all messing with Red." That would be preferable to beating around the bush about it. Of course, that would likely only increase the "flirting," heh.
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Not at all. If that's what I wanted to say, believe me, I'd say it. |
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No matter how much a man loves his women he has to be ready to leave that relationship rather than lose control at any time if he wants it to be a good one. It's not like women I have been with over the years have not crossed the line. Instead of bitching about it to her and having a fight and acting all jealous thereby losing all power in the relationship I chose to go another direction, exactly the opposite of what you would expect. Without getting jealous at all I just told her I thought she should hook up with that guy. I told her how hot he was and said I would want to **** him if I was a woman and left it at that. I gotta tell you it worked wonderfully. "I love you. I want to be with you. Stop it that's not funny" type of reactions followed by the hug that announces to whoever the other guy is that she has no intention of wandering. |
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So, she fed you a line like, "I love you, I want to be with you" and you ate it up. Who's the bitch again? |
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This debate is too general imo. Maybe someone should start an official planet flirting thread.
That way, we can centralize all the Planet flirting into one thread and grade FPs (flirt posts) as "over the bounds", "innocent fun", "borderline internet fraud", etc. I would start it, but my threads don't work out very well. FAX |
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It there a distinction between "Online Flirting" and "Online Sex?"
I think online flirting is pretty harmless in a relationship. Flirting is human nature. I think Online Sex is a different story... One that I don't think I completely understand. |
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Which brings us back to the original topic. What constitutes cheating in your book? |
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I don't get it... You're allowed to cheat on her, but she's not allowed to cheat on you? |
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Bah, murder is human nature, too. Online sex is reeruned. One step below people who jerk off in porn theaters. |
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ROFL It's funny sometimes things get takin out of context when your trying to make a point. We don't go out that much and when we do she almost always flirts with women and rarely guys unless she is interested in their women. Whatever, the point is acting jealous makes you lose all control in the relationship. Funny thing about some people. They do something and it doesn't work so instead of figuring out what will they just keep doing the wrong thing stronger. |
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I just thought it was wierd licking a keyboard... Once I got past that part, it was all downhill baby... :) |
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Cool, thanks for answering. Is there nothing outside of actual physical contact that would disturb you? |
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Some ****ed up views of Love in here... but that's normal in any online community, I suppose.
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What gets me is how I'm an a$$hole for bringing it up. I'm like a cop at a frat party. |
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Besides that. There is no reason for her to be getting a guys phone number. Online I suppose if they were going on about how she wanted him to do her I would have to take a serious look at our relationship. That's not sharing mutual stuff. |
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My wife would never go for a threesome, unless Angelina Jolie shows up at the front door. |
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I think this thread was, for all inents and purposes, over with Iowanian's answer.
I think that would pretty much cover all things. |
I flirted with some guys wife online before........I'm obviously a bad man.
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Apparently, by today's standards, you are the norm. Only people like me, who frown on such behavior, are bad people. |
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I think this thread would be easier to follow if someone would put up the supporting cast.
Something like: Clint - - M Mer - - F Etc. If you don't know what gender someone is what they say isn't as funny. This is supposet to be a funny read, right? |
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"Hey, honey...would mind not acting like you want to screw the entire nation?" "Jeez, you're such a high-maintenance prima donna!" How does that work? High maintenance?? |
I don't think it's so much what you do, but what your SO's comfort level is. It's ok if you're not exceeding their comfort level. If you are, then it's not right.
Both just have to have clearly defined limits. BD gets along fine with his situation. I couldn't deal with that. As long as you two communicate and get on the same plane as far as expected behavior there is room for lots of different attitudes and tolorance levels. |
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Of course not. I'm just trying to figure out how not being in favor of online flirting equals "high maintenance". |
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why do women say, "I'd never do a threesome, I'm not bisexual....except for (Enter Hot Chick's Name)." Isn't that kind of hypocritical? :hmmm: I, personally, would never do another guy, no matter who it is. Nor would I participate in a thressome just because it's Brad Pitt or whomever. Proves all women are bisexual, just to different degrees. |
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So the girl has to hear you whine about this. She has to start hiding stuff from you just so she doesn't have to hear you whine. She has to make sure every little word and thing she says and does doesn't in some way flick your angry man switch. Sounds like a fun way to spend the afternoon on the Internet. Then she gets to watch you bitch about her in front of everyone. I mean. Hypothetically. |
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I think the answer to that question is, "because you're not getting it done." And I'm not talking about you specifically... I'm talking in general terms. In studying communication, there is a principle that has always stuck with me with regards to relationships... It stands true for any relationship, whether it be co-workers, boss-employee, husband-wife... You name it... It simply stated as this: in any relationship where one side perceives a deficit in the relational exchange, that side will (conciously or unconciously) endeavor to achieve balance. |
Good to see the grab-ass thread is still going strong.
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Is that what he's trying to say...because you know, when he goes into his tirades, he doesn't exactly speak english..ROFL |
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No where near enough to consistently read your posts. |
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Leave this new boy alone..I like his name, I think I'll keep him........:D |
Speaking of online flirts...
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You've been online far too long. |
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feeling left out are we...........:D |
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show is "show us your tits!!!!!!!" or "This thread is meaningless without pics" flirting? how about "NTTAWWT" ? ... cause if NTTAWWT is flirting than most of the people on this board are gheymo flirts. :) |
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My self control isn't limited to just making sure I don't piss off my man. I'm not trading my joy for his joy. He wouldn't want me to. Granted compromise is nice and generally helps you actually maintain a relationship. But I'm pretty safe in thinking your girl has compromised. And you're still bitching. You should take the high road because you're a man and want to. |
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If you are willing to let online flirting bust up your marriage, then you have far bigger problems then online flirting...:shake: And yes, people do flirt everyday, and it means NOTHING, I am willing to bet that my SO is the biggest flirt in the world...if this little board can upset you like this, My SO flirting would make you freak.....if you are not secure with yourself then that little green monster is gonna get you........ROFL |
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I don't feel like foreplay tonight, so call me bitch, whore, slut,whatever, and let's move on.........:D |
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its a well known fact that alot of beautiful,smart,funny women tend to be a bit on the flirty side...
my guess is that was one of the factors that drew you to her....probably didnt complain when you were one of the guys who she was flirting with... in clints defense though,sometimes guys can mistake flirting for just being friendly.. in my experience,as long as she loves the guy,everything is cool but as soon as you get a lil overbearing with her and her flirting..look out..good way to lose a great girl |
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bug off lee.....:rolleyes: |
Simple... If it's who she is and you don't like it. SPLIT UP or try to change another human being to suit you and live a miserable life until you SPLIT UP.
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Was it the "Preposition" that got her? :) |
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