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BossChief 09-27-2013 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins (Post 10025136)
Mine aren't old enough for something like that, but I'm sure I'd be anxious internally. Do your best to project confidence in them, and you're there no matter what happens.

Yup. Confidence is the biggest thing you can assist with.

If they are confident and enjoy what they are doing, they will knock it out of the park.

With my son, we have a lot of talks about what makes him nervous and I try to share things I do when I'm nervous.

Works every time.

Rain Man 09-27-2013 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mosbonian (Post 10025218)
Mine luckily inherited her mother's singing talent and has a beautiful 1st Soprano voice....I am her biggest fan. I tell her all the time she is naturally talented and just go out there and sing like no one is listening.

But still I get anxious for her because I know that in HS what you fear the most is looking bad in front of your friends.

I most feared being electrocuted in front of my friends, but I guess it's kind of the same thing.

Rasputin 09-27-2013 06:37 PM

Watch Dead Poets Society & learn how not to father a child.

Mosbonian 09-27-2013 09:04 PM

As usual she did a great job tonight...as did everyone else in the concert.

007 09-27-2013 11:48 PM

Just have them listen to Alanis Morisette's Perfect.

RealSNR 09-28-2013 04:37 AM

If she messes up, remind her that it's all her fault for not practicing harder. Drive the point home by withholding affection for the next couple of weeks.

BryanBusby 09-28-2013 05:08 AM

Just have her picture the crowd drinking a glass of antifreeze.

vailpass 09-28-2013 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by SNR (Post 10026022)
If she messes up, remind her that it's all her fault for not practicing harder. Drive the point home by withholding affection for the next couple of weeks.

:D and food. A few days of starvation straightens them right out.

trndobrd 09-28-2013 06:33 AM

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Originally Posted by vailpass (Post 10025143)
My oldest starts at cb for his high school team, my second oldest starts at 2b in Cal Ripken bb league.
I get butterflies like a mofo every time. It's natural.

Maybe you just need a snowcone to relax.

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memyselfI 09-28-2013 06:45 AM

Yup. But I don't think it's nervous for them as I believe in their abilities. I think it's more I sense and feel their nervous energy. They look to me to be a rock for them when they are feeling that way so I can't feel it. But once their performance starts, I'm usually relieved when it's over.

J Diddy 09-28-2013 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by vailpass (Post 10026028)
:D and food. A few days of starvation straightens them right out.

Yes. I learned that the most effective way to elicit change in my principles of learning class was to withhold food and love. You will definitely see a performance difference in a very short time.
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BlackHelicopters 09-28-2013 09:33 AM

Where's the depravity?


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