Ethical and/or Moral dilemma
A few months back my girlfriend and I took in a friend in need. To make a long story short the guy owned a 1 year old husky mix and an adult cat. This guy has had a pretty hard life growing up. His ex gave him a 3 month old husky mix as a gift, then broke up with him about a month later. He never asked for it, and after they split was never really able to take care of it. He is an emotional mess and pretty much sleeps all the time except for when he is working.
Last week, after his dog pissed all over our house, and he realized everybody was better off if the dog went to a better home. The dog has a better home now, and some pretty awesome new owners. About two days after the dog left our house his cat ran outside while we let our own dogs out. His cat is not an outdoor cat. My girlfriend and I put up flyers for it today (he hasn't made an effort to find it in any fashion), but while putting up flyers we discovered the deceased cat in some brush by the road. We are beyond torn on what to do. Currently his cat is wrapped up in a towel in my garage, and I really don't want to tell him, even though that is the easiest thing to do. I really don't know if this guy can handle more shit on his already large pile of shit he calls a life. I already found a dead cat today, and I really don't want to find a dead roommate another day. tl;dr: Roommate is a broken depressed human that had to give up his dog, and now lost his cat forever. Do I tell this poor soul, or let him have false hope? |
If he cared a lot about the cat, why, as you mentioned, did he not put any effort at all into finding it?
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Either way though, I'd tell him. He's an adult, he deserves not to be deceived.
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It's probably better to tell him than have him worried bout the thing.
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Still though, he's an adult, I wouldn't hide it from him. |
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To make it all worse, my girlfriend feels responsible sense that cat ran out while she let our dogs out. |
Put the cat in the freezer and tell him later on, maybe in a few months
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You should keep the cat and show it to him after you find out your girlfriend sympathy ****ed him one day while you were out.
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The truth.....always the truth.
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Telling him would be brutal, no doubt... but even if you don't, he's still going to be worried about and it's not going to put him in a very good mood.
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If the guy is in a bad place...I'd hold off. Nothing is going to change if he knows tomorrow or in 6 months.
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****ing tell him the cat died.
He's depressed because he list a woman. I'm a sensitive guy and I'm not thaaaat stupid. Seriously? This isn't a problem. Get another damn cat. |
An ethical, moral dilemma is cheating on someone or stealing something. This is. .dude,sorry, we found the cat dead, dinner is ready at 6
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