Is this being too judgmental?
 

Today I saw something I thought was pretty shitty and shared it with facebook. I saw a visibly pregnant women smoking outside of Arby's with a Co-worker. I called this women a selfish POS and was told by someone how that's ****ed up and I was being judgmental. Was I in the wrong?

Yes, you are being judgmental by definition. You are also correct.

Its stupid of her to smoke while pregnant, no doubt. Possibly a criminal act.

Stupid of you to comment on it.

Mind your own ****ing business.

That is sad.

She was doing it openly in public by me.

IMHO somebody has to speak for that unborn kid. Apparently it won't be the stupid hole carrying it.

It's none of your business.

eYes it is judgmental....But that's why we are given large brains. We make judgments all the time. **** that bitch, I hope your comment shook her up.

Mind your own ****ing business? ROFL



You're right, everyone should keep quiet. Great mentality to have. I would have stopped and slapped that cig out of her hands. Stupid bitch.

normally I'm the kind who minds my own business, but ya, you should not smoke while pregnant. It's just ****ed up. Then I again, I used to be a bartender and this pregnant lady came in all the time and got tore up on long islands. I thought about not serving her and mentioned it to my boss, and my boss was like she's a customer and if she wants to drink, she's gonna drink and she may as well spend the money here.

Yes, it is quite judgmental to draw broad, over-arching conclusions about people based on one act. Humans are complex creatures, dude.

Facebook isn't really an appropriate forum for that kind of thing, either. If it comes up while having an intelligent discussion with someone, you can voice your opinion on something like that. However, to just proclaim to all of that internet that you saw a "selfish" person at Arby's today... well, what is even the point?

Yeah, that kind of attitude has lead to some great things in our history:

http://www.ushmm.org/holocaust/image.jpg

Walk away.

It wasn't her intent to harm you.

I'm not sure i would have said anything, probably wouldnt as you know its not going to change anything, but there have been times where i see pregnant women i know lighting up or drinking & it forever changes my opinion of them.