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Originally Posted by patteeu
I don't understand this response:
If the girl is repulsed by sex and you don't want to have a relationship with her because of that, then don't. You don't need to have sex with her to figure this out.
And I'm not sure where you get this theory:
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I liked her for a dozen other reasons, but ultimately there was a piece missing from our relationship that contributed to its demise. The lack of physical intimacy definitely caused us to be less close than we would have been otherwise. I think she can/will have relationship success with a man who feels the same way, but that falls under the category of "unusual circumstances".
As for the second bit: it's literally written in human genetic code to not only desire sex, but to bond with those who you have it with. This is true of women, especially. There are exceptions, but both scientific and anecdotal evidence points to the fact that sexless relationships often result in incomplete, less-happy-than-they-could-be partnerships.