Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY
That's the whole point, it's sexual preference. I don't know why they don't just say it. It's always got to be the whole coming out thing like they were created that way.
I can only speak for myself, but I never made an active decision about my sexuality.
Perhaps you or others hit 12 years old and had to sit down and weigh the pro's and con's, but for me and most people attraction is more of a base instinct than a well calculated decision.
Actions are decisions, but feelings are not.