Being a "Hot guy" is not all about looks. You can be the top 99% of wit, humor, money making, social skills, etc. You can be a hot guy with average looks. I have a bag O tricks because I have years in the game. I have tools that I can use to bring down those hot girls bitch face. Of course people want to whine and play xbox all day because they are lazy ****s. I also am not of the approach "let it happen" I don't see any other skills in life where people "let it happen" it's not like you learn to play piano by "Not thinking about it and letting it happen" you work on your game and you work on relationships like any other skills. Think about what you want and what you don't want and improve yourself over time to get that. In my world "Let it happen and don't worry about it" gets you some sea donkey that sucks at making me laugh and can't do shit for herself.
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