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Originally Posted by Katipan
If you shovel the shit ton of condescension out of that post it may be read able. But not by much.
"Still in the stage..." Your woman has trained you well. Not only will she dole out sexual favors she flat out does not enjoy but there are 2 separate lists for you to order a la carte. And at the end of the day she gets to be the evolved chick while the rest of us who are happily participating in a vigorous sex life are just... Growing up?
Ridiculous to imply that there is a cool stage to grow out of just because the average woman has better things to do with her time than waste it on crap that she doesn't like. Or on lists. Wtf.
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Ha ha ha... hilarious. There was no condescension at all in my post. I didn't imply that the "cool stage" is something to grow out of, you read it that way. My experience in many relationships is that people try to put their best foot forward at the beginning of relationships... for men, that manifests itself as dressing nicer, always shaving, being the perfect gentleman etc. For women, they laugh at every joke, feign an interest in sports when they aren't at all interested, and often are more adventurous in bed than they truly like to be. When the relationship moves out of the new stage and into a longer relationship, many of these things settle back in and we become more or less how we really are. That's when the relationship either survives or ends. There was no condescension.
And yes, my woman has trained me well. The lists as I said are unwritten and everyone has one. You have one. There are things that you absolutely will not do. If your wife/girlfriend said,
"hey, I want to have a three way with me, you and my uncle bob". If you say
"**** no" you have a "never" list. If your girlfriend doesn't really like to (enter some of your favorite sex acts here), but does occasionally because you like them, then she has a "occasional" list and you either abide by it or you are not a very good partner to her, are raping her, or you will dump her. Very rarely do two people have exactly the same preferences in bed or the same level of sex drive. But how glorious that would be.
Edit... I may have incorrectly assumed you were a man in my last post. Not my intent. Please switch up the examples I gave from a woman's perspective assuming that is the case.