He has to be cute. Not drop dead gorgeous by any means. My taste in looks vary from person to person. The biggest turn on for me is self confidence. A man that is not afraid of and can handle a strong, stubborn, neurotic female. Personality goes a long way as well. Cultured is another turn on. Not to mention being a brainiac, is a huge plus, but not near as important as self confidence!!! I would say that is it in a nutshell!
Oh, and having his own money helps alot!!
