Well, found what I wanted.
PCDJ seems to be the thing

Mix, fade, tag editing, and a simple console of two side by side "CD players" to use for commands.
Oh, I also bought Monkey Media Gold Version. For anyone who wants to rip music, tag it, apply genre's - years - albums - notes - etc and then dump to an Excel file instead of typing it all out again, this is the program. I solely used dbPowerAmp for my conversions in the past. But Monkey Media blows it away.