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Originally Posted by gochiefs
If she's not interested in me because of those things, I didn't need her shallow ass anyway.
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That sounds all swell and good but you have to decide what your core beliefs are and be ready to comprimise the rest.
I'm not the same man I was when my wife and I met. I do things differently. I work more, I'm more focused, etc. I would happily space off for a week or more before we got together. However, I wasn't dead set that I would space off, it wasn't a core value. So I comprimised that out of my life.
Also, your nerd-dom isn't a core value. I NEVER speak to my wife about the details of my work. She couldn't care less. It isn't who I am anyway, no more than gmail is who you are.