Thanks for all the replies so far.
Most important to know, is I am not thinking directly about sexual thoughts with her. I want to, and so does she, but we both agree we're just not gonna do it. I have never been too much of a womanizer, and have only liked (liked) one other girl besides her. This one though, I was determined to do something about. I wouldn't have lived with myself if I hadn't.
If that makes me less of a man to some of you, that's fine, it won't hurt my feelings.
I agree with the waiting part. Again, I don't plan on marrying til after college, it's just not practical and "healthy", I guess could be the word.
I am 17, I am a senior in high school, and I do think I'm better than the average male in this country. I'm just being honest.
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