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Originally Posted by Jenson71
Most important to know, is I am not thinking directly about sexual thoughts with her. I want to, and so does she, but we both agree we're just not gonna do it. I have never been too much of a womanizer, and have only liked (liked) one other girl besides her. This one though, I was determined to do something about. I wouldn't have lived with myself if I hadn't.
If that makes me less of a man to some of you, that's fine, it won't hurt my feelings.
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If what makes you less of a man? Not having sex? There's nothing wrong with that, if that's what the two of you agree on.
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I am 17, I am a senior in high school, and I do think I'm better than the average male in this country. I'm just being honest.
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Nothing wrong with that, either, although I think I tend to think more along the lines of "as good as" rather than "better than". I think everybody has some value in some way or another, maybe different strengths or weaknesses, which doesn't make one individual any better or worse than any other. Just different. When you're feeling particularly cocky, remember that there are people out there who can do things, amazing things, that you simply can't. And on a bad day, remember you've got your own particular individual strengths, whatever they may be.
The trick is being even-keeled. Never too high, never too low. Keep a balance. Remember your strengths, recognize your weaknesses, and don't dwell too much on either.