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Originally Posted by keg in kc
Being picky is fine. Just make sure you let people make their own judgements about you, too. That's one I have a problem with, assuming one way or the other instead of giving people a chance to make up their own mind about me. It's an easy way to preempt rejection.
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I always seem to be interested in a guy until he shows interest back. Then I think there must be something wrong with him if he's settling for me. The times when I have decided not to think that, I end up coming on too strong (I like to spoil people I like with attention and such), or I was completely off base about them being interested to begin with. Vicious cycle.