[Mr. Flopnuts]

The fact that you stated you want it to work very badly is a sign you should probably relax from the situation yourself currently. I say this because in my experience when you want something so badly you are almost inevitibly bound to **** it up. Maybe the fact that she needs some time to heal from her wounds is the best thing that could happen for this potential relationship. It will give you two the time to form a friendship bond that may make both of you more comfortable when the time comes. I hope it works out for you. As to the question itself. I personally would never put a time limit on something I felt so strongly about. The time would be up when the feeling subsided.