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Originally Posted by Inspector
Prayers and best wishes on a expedited and successful fight and victory. That is indeed a rare thing for those who have the penis disadvantage working against them.
I have told my sons: "Be careful where you stick your dick!" on many occasions.
One of them didn't really pay attention. We may in for a similar deal....ugh....
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yeah... be careful where you stick it indeed.
thanks for the thoughts and prayers.
well, if your son needs some advice i can certainly give some. where i went right and where i went wrong with this situation (so far).
if it's headed in that direction his best bets are to:
1. get the kids in counseling RIGHT AWAY. it is going to help the kids first and foremost (
which is the most important aspect. divorce SUCKS for kids... get them the help/guidance right away so they don't have to suffer more.), and as far as the court is concerned, it looks better if HE initiates it and not her. gnome sayn? my initiative on counseling for my children ended up being a BIG feather in my cap with the courts.
2. keep a journal. dates, times, facts and outcomes. keep the "emotional" out of it. just the facts. it's a TOTAL pain in the ass (and i HATE doing it) but if you DO go to court, the GAL's are going to want to read it cover to cover.
3. shop around for a good attorney. do some research on the father's advocacy groups in your area, ask around and try to find one of the attorneys that is recommended by the group, but doesn't have too much of the "political agenda" written all over them. the judges don't like the "political agenda" stuff in their courtrooms for the most part. (especially if the courts are "women-biased" in your neck of the woods.)
hope this helps. good luck.