I spank my kids. I don't ABUSE my kids. When I spank them I'm never angry to the extend I want to hurt them. But it's just something about getting a whack on the rear end that sends the mesaage home.
I doubt that my spankings are painful, but it's the fact that dad is dissapointed in them that makes them cry.
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