Young... no real jobs... likely no big savings, etc.
I don't know that you're going to get great rates from a lender on buying a home, plus that is a debt that you may want to avoid since you don't have real jobs making good money. I'm just making that statement based on what you said... it could be different.
I would say, do the apartment thing until you have saved some $... and until you're married. You'll enjoy moving into the home with $ in the bank as a married couple.
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