Well if she is reading this.. Tell her to read all the quotes.. Since you cannot delete those..
She can read about you cheating on her.. Of course if this were all made up you would not delete everything.. Your best recourse is to run away to another site.. Gochief might have one for you..
As for your lawyer.. I am pretty sure if you post information on a public board, you cannot cry fowl if it is used against you..