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Really, just be willing to change some of the normal things you're used to. If things seem to bother her, then let her know you'll try and stop. If she's rational (and you are too), then she'll hopefully do the same with you. Also, do household things together i.e. I take the laundry downstairs and put it in the washer, my gf switches it to the dryer and after takes it upstairs. Then we both fold it (together, or one of us will surprise the other and do it). Good Luck and let us know how it goes.....