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Originally Posted by Mecca
That is usually how it works but it's not always that way.
It's like BWillie said in that one thread, in a general way of speaking, don't take this personally.
A woman will make a comment like "he doesn't have a good career" or he's going nowhere you'll never hear a guy say "man I really like this chick but she has a shitty job..."
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Probably because that those of us not raised by womens' libbers were in the type of environment where the man was the head of the house, aka the main breadwinner. It's not like we're necessarily looking for someone to take care of us (in a way, yes). We just think that the man should have better jobs than we do. I don't know that I could be a stay at home wife. I hate cleaning. If anything, I'd want to use the fact that I also have a job as leverage to talk the hubby into helping more with the household chores.
As for men, where do they learn to be attracted to thin women? Oh yeah, media, friends, society, etc.... They are trained to think that fat = bad, lazy, etc.