I do listen but I HAVE learned and listened to what women want and happily that pretty much hits the nail on the head for what I am. I can be sweet and thoughtful and full of surprises but without the other things it really means nothing.
And I wish you would give women a second chance, I respect them immensely and enjoy the company of women to men any time! Seriously you are missing a gift to men that when you find the right one is a treasure and should be treated as such (most the time
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