Originally Posted by CatLuvinChief
The whole texting thing where she deletes them etc is a huge red flag.
DO NOT move in with this girl. You're asking for a world of hurt if you do.
Just leave her. If she really likes you she will try to get you back, then the ball is in your court and you can tell her how things should be if you're gonna be in a relationship.
Leave her man, there's better out there for you. F*** that. Me and my girl have been together for like 4 years and we never cheated on each other once, we trust each other completely, and we never hide anything or hold any secrets. Deleting text messages from this guy should be enough to tell you what you need to know.
Get the hell out and like Cat said if she really wants to be with you, she'll try and get you back and now you're in control of the relationship.
I'd go out with your friends and party your ass off this weekend and screw some other chick. I know this probably hurts pretty bad since you've been with her for a long time now, probably hurts really really bad, but you will eventually get over it if she doesnt want you back or you even dont want to take her back.