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Originally Posted by GoChiefs
Why? She was in no hurry to get out of the restaurant after we paid the bill. It was pretty clear she did not mind my company at all.
I probably sound a little desperate. Of course, I am. I've never had a second date. Help me face-sucking drunk girl, you're my only hope.
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Well, no offense intended (seriously, just trying to help), but most women deep down are looking for someone with long term potential if they are dating. If they just want to get dirty they can go to the bar and pick the hottest guy they can find. In dating/relationships they picture someone who can protect/provide in the future for them and for their family. Get a job, get your own place. Start taking some classes (there'll be plenty of women there anyway). It will probably do wonders for your confidence which is what they notice. No matter how nice and genuine you might be in real life, unemployed and lives with parents will never get you a second date. Take control, work on those things. Life will work itself out if you take control of it.
Apologies if I don't have a correct knowledge of your situation. Just going by what is said here.