If you don't have the frame to make it, then sometimes you just have to accept that. I understand that really sucks. But you only have what God gave you. You can't force anything more and expect good results. I've seen too many friends in this situation and they end up with a changed personality and still end up not making it anyway. And once the got big, they had to keep it up for fear of shrinking again.
I'd strongly advise against this. But I understand why he wants to. Tough situation.
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