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My wife once asked if I thought about sex with other women.
I said "Yes, Everyday"
Her follow up question was will I be faithful.
I said "I would not make her a promise that I might break, but that the love and respect for her far out ways any desire to lose her trust".
It would be easy for me to say I would never be unfaithful, but the fact is no one ever can promise that. Everyone has different ideas of what constitutes cheating. There is mental, emotional and physical. Due you draw the line at touching, at penetration, at expressions of desire. It depends on you level of passion and how you express it. In the past,
I have had looks that can be more satisfying than a kiss. I have experienced a more intense feeling with the brush of a hand than with penetration.
Sure, I think about other women. but I waited for 7 years for my wife.
Every time I see her I get the same feeling I get when I first saw her.
She is my best friend that I want to see naked.
I said this to her once. "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence if you don't water your own lawn."
It is human nature to covet beautiful things. But a wise man once told life can be boiled down to "Choice and Consequences".
I choose every day to be faithful to my wife.
I will now step down from the soap box.
Ang
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