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Originally Posted by scott free
Thats a smart move that not all of us were smart enough to make, some of us kinda didnt have a choice.
Yes, you are to be commended for truly honoring your vows... but judging people who have faltered as not being 'real men' is over the top.
People are forgiven & move on from other things that are just as bad, every day.
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What if you call them scumbags? I'm not saying that I'm perfect or better than anybody else because of my choices. I'm thankful that I've not pulled the trigger despite opportunities. I've been tempted and have managed to abstain. It's possible. Being a scumbag or not a "real man" isn't a lifelong label. It's something that men are able to overcome. But cheating is very, very low. It's despicable. But our culture has glamorized it and accepts it. I don't accept THAT.