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Old 03-21-2010, 08:42 AM   #35
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Originally Posted by MTG#10 View Post
I have tried to move on. Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife, 1 of them I actually cared about. I even stopped sleeping with my wife while I was with her. But she ended up going back to her ex then I started ****ing my wife again. Im not trying to act like this is normal or healthy, I know its ****ed up, but I cant help it. I love her. We grew up together, she's all Ive really known since I was 19. She's my best friend. Hell, my only real friend.
Moving on does not mean ****ing other women. Moving on means learning who you are and who you want to be. Your actions suggest you want to be the kind of man that ****s his life up over and over again.....is that really what you want to be?

I'm divorced. I know it's ****ING hard to let it all go. But at some point you have to start thinking with your head and not your heart and the problem is YOU have to intentionally make that decision. You aren't a victim and it's time for you to start taking control of your life and stop doing things to damage yourself.
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