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Originally Posted by Phobia
I know there's a lot of people giving you advice. Here's what you need to do.
Ignore all the advice and sit down with that woman and COMMUNICATE from the heart. She's having her cake and eating it too. She's found two men who will put up with her antics.
You can't fix your relationship, she can't fix it, counseling won't fix it. I believe that if you both are willing to work then God can help restore your marriage.
But it's really, really screwed up in its current state. It's unhealthy for everybody and somebody is going to end up in a coffin if this kind of mental anguish continues.
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Solid advice and if anyone in this scenario were capable of doing it... they could probably make some progress that is good for everyone involved.