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Old 03-21-2010, 07:55 PM   #281
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Originally Posted by Phobia View Post
Magically? No, I've never suggested anything like that at all. Nobody is going to snap their fingers and have a relationship miraculously restored. It takes full buy-in from both parties, modified objectives, faith, and a host of other variables. But God loves marriage. He endorses it and does not want marriages to fail. Biblically, MTG is well within his rights to end the marriage. But he wants to be with her. She's wishy-washy about being with him.

There's a lot of confusing and damaging issues here. My strongest suggestion is that this relationship has zero hope without spiritual guidance.
That post of mine wasn't at all meant to negate what you said. People who don't live and struggle in faith daily, often see God as a magic solution to problems and then get frustrated when God doesn't swoop in to save the day, that's the only reason I said that.
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