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Originally Posted by Mr. Flopnuts
I've read this twice now in the last couple of minutes. You alright?
To answer your question, sometimes. But I think it's a waste of time. Would've been, could've been, and should've been are nothing more than obstacles we place for ourselves on the road of life.
Spending too much time thinking about the past or even the future is detrimental to right now. And what you're doing right now is the only thing that matters. It's the only thing that will get you where you want to be, which of course, is where you should be.
Are you where you want to be right now?
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I agree, but I think it's a waste of time because a lot of people can't be brutally honest with themselves... when I struggled right out of college, I focused a lot on how it happened, but it was all external.... the job market, the school I went to, a couple of bad experiences out of my control at school, etc; and it wasn't until I held myself accountable that I started working hard to change things.
Not saying that it's necessarily your problem, luv, just agreeing with Flopnuts for the most part... people are very good at rationalizing their life away.