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Originally Posted by Bearcat
I agree, but I think it's a waste of time because a lot of people can't be brutally honest with themselves... when I struggled right out of college, I focused a lot on how it happened, but it was all external.... the job market, the school I went to, a couple of bad experiences out of my control at school, etc; and it wasn't until I held myself accountable that I started working hard to change things.
Not saying that it's necessarily your problem, luv, just agreeing with Flopnuts for the most part... people are very good at rationalizing their life away.
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Not really thinking about the past. Only in that is how I got to where I am. What could I have done to change things? Is it something I can change now? I have a nice apartment, I love my car, my cat purrs when I pet her, and I'm surviving on my own. With the pending possibility of being unemployed, I guess I've just begun the evaluating a little early. Or a little late. Maybe it's something I should have done a long time ago.
I'm in a comfort zone, though. I'm trying to break out, but I'm just so unsure of myself. Am I the type of person who has what it takes (whatever "it" is)? Only one way to find out, I guess.