[DJay23]

After a bad breakup from a 3 year relationship with my college sweetheart, I dated probably around 10 girls over a period of about 5 years, each for varying lengths of time. One of them I really liked and had hoped for a future with, but she turned out to have some psychological issues (not hyperbole) that gave her (in her mind) reason not to get too serious. After that I played it casual. None of the girls who followed were really seriously my type relationship wise but were within my "Would You" range so I did. One of them in particular became quite a nice booty call for several years until I met the woman who would be my wife. The girl I had been serious about at first actually turned out to be a pretty good booty call herself toward the end of my bachelorhood.

I would say It was a good way for someone who's not a bar fly to meet a lot of girls, but after a few relationships I realized that it's not a great way (at least for me) to find someone to spend my life with (if that's what you're after).

After my experience, I don't find it at all strange or coincident that I met my wife through a mutual friend who knew both of us personally, and not online.