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Originally Posted by tooge
If they are truly your friends, then you should know they are kidding around and you should be able to have a comeback for them. If you aren't sure if they are kidding around, and it hurts your feelings, then they aren't truly the friends you think they are. If that's the case, then tell em to go play hide and go **** themselves and get better friends. I'm 44 years old and made the decision many years ago that I'm too old to hang with people that don't make me feel good about being their pals, even when we are giving each other major shit. If a "friend" makes me feel otherwise, then I have no need for them in my life. If they are a good friend, there isn't any limit to what I will do for them.
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I am the same way. I think it was just one of those times when I take things personal when I shouldn't. I'm used to the one friend (in the second scenario) giving me shit. As I said, I had gotten him really good earlier that day. I think it was just that on top of what the other person said the day before. And I'm a moody female. Probably just caught me at the wrong time.