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Originally Posted by Otter
I offered her a Skittle and asked if she wanted to go to a baseball game and she said yes. It's a go so far!
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That's a perfect date without being a date. Its laid back (not an in your face date) and gets her a little out of her element.
What you really need to do in order to land a girl who is a little out of your league is to get her competitive juices going while keeping her just a little off balance.
During the game, work something along the lines of the following into the conversation: "People always say they want to try new things, but then they just wind up doing the same tired old shit over and over again." If she takes the bait and agrees with you, tell her you're taking her out again, but the activity is a surprise. Just tell her to wear a t-shirt and shorts or jeans.
Take her either to a shooting range (if you've ever shot a gun) or to a high-performance go-cart track like Sadlers in Olathe. She will have a blast, and you'll stand out to her.
If you're in IT, she probably thinks you're a little nerdy. Us that to your advantage. Taking her to a gun range will show her that you're a little nerdy, but you've also got a little bit of badass in you. Chicks love that combination.