Although it's not a funny situation, I have to laugh at people who live their lives in this manner. It's a bit of a cycle and if you can't get out of it you'll struggle with this shit forever. I hate to see you do that.
I don't condone smacking children. I've seen first hand in my job what people do to kids. And especially what new boyfriends can do to children brought into the relationship.
I hope you have a good lawyer. I really do. Deservedly or not, it sounds like you really ****ed this guy up. He's now got a real chance to **** you up in a criminal or civil way, **** up the relationship with your kids and ruin you financially.
Good luck to you.
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