Originally Posted by htismaqe
Stop moving the goalposts and answer the question, IF you can.
It's not worth my time. You look it up and tell me if there is one. I know you understood the point anyway. It's the same thing as pointing out a mispelled word. It is bullshit.
Originally Posted by saphojunkie
You find someone that has all the qualities you're looking for, you make the commitment, and then you spend the next several years tweaking and adjusting to find that harmonious partnership.
Sack up and take the plunge or die alone looking for the sure thing.
What if none of them have the most important quality you are looking for? Do you wait until you find it? Or, do you marry the first one you see, buy Richard Simmons Sweatin' to the Oldies
DVD, and trust that she'll lose 47 lbs. before summer?
It sounds nice but, it's not reality. You can turn a housewife into a ho but, you can't turn a ho into a housewife.