Originally Posted by mlyonsd
I gave you a what if. Not an end all answer.
The whole left mantra is it's the woman's decision. If my dollars are going to pay for a particular decision I think I should have a say in the consequences of that decision.
Of course if she wants to pay for it on her own it is completely her decision.
Just my guess here but I would think in the vast majority of the cases the men are asked and probably decline to keep.