By not going youíre not only hurting your mom your letting the doucher win. He will have then successfully chased you away from your own family. Donít know if thatís his goal or not but **** him regardless. Go and make him the uncomfortable one. Keep your trap, mostly, shut but make sure he leaves knowing that if he ever lays a finger on your mother in anger heíll finish his life eating through a straw and shitting in a bag.
Like "Cool Hand" Luke I'm busting rocks.
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