Originally Posted by Mile High Mania
You can view it as a teaching moment too... one day, your kids will grow up and how would you like them to handle a similar situation? I don't know how old the kids are, so they may not be ready for it.
The good news is that YOU can be ready for it and YOU will be ready for it... plan accordingly and do right by the family.
I want my kids to raise their kids, not try to protect me from my own screwed up choices. That's how it works.