Originally Posted by tooge
Not sure my bro knows as much as I do. He's the youngest and not as close to mom as I am. She told me everything, he probably knows only surface issues. And yes, my father was a great man. treated my mother like a queen.
It might be a good idea to get your brother up to speed on what's going on. He lives closer and is in a better potion to keep an eye onn things. He needs to hear, from you, why you aren't going to be at Thanksgiving dinner. Most importantly, she is his mother too and has a right to know.