Originally Posted by tooge
So I stick to my guns. She says she understands about my principles. Then she texts me that the BF is really hurting over this. I tell her that I don't intend to "hurt" him, but that his actions have consequences and time, therapy, and not apologies are what it will take with me. Today she basically tells me to **** off and she and the BF need time and not to call her for "a while". Wow. Sad.
I'd be inclided to take Phil's advice and go ahead and continue your relationship. Mad props for sticking to your guns.