Originally Posted by tooge
So I stick to my guns. She says she understands about my principles. Then she texts me that the BF is really hurting over this. I tell her that I don't intend to "hurt" him, but that his actions have consequences and time, therapy, and not apologies are what it will take with me. Today she basically tells me to **** off and she and the BF need time and not to call her for "a while". Wow. Sad.
I didn't read the thread, I just came in for an update and found this amongst some other things. I gave my opinion, but really tried to stay out of it because I don't have any personal experience with it, and didn't want to chime in on something I knew nothing about outside of an initial reaction as to what I would do. I'm just really sorry to hear it. Go with Phil's advice. Call her anyways.
And on a side note, I'd like to give props to Chiefshrink. That was great stuff. I've said my fair share of nasty things to you in DC, and questioned whether or not you were a real psychologist, but no doubt you are. Fantastic analysis.