Originally Posted by J Diddy
With all due respect, caring about the friend isn't an option in self interest. The only option is to perform the action due to fear of a negative consequence to yourself such as guilt over inaction.
Trying to find a way to feel good about yourself or to avoid feeling bad about yourself is self-interest.
“[Cruz] might not be the most fun to have a drink at the bar with, but America needs a designated driver.” - Mica Mosbacher, wife of the late Robert Mosbacher, Secretary of Commerce