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I don't know you personally so please don't take this personal. I have had a few dig into my privacy as well. ONLY my wife is allowed! But the bottom line....no matter who it is, if you are willing to go behind another's back to get info on them it's because you don't trust them or your trying to get the upper hand either way... Relationship FAIL!!
First...you ate the apple! and now that you see you have to make a choice. You invaded another's privacy ( things are private for a reason).
You're not married. What gives you the right? She is just like any other, weighing the pros and cons of the facts before marring into your family. Were her comments true? Or just snobby ( I am better than you ) lies?
So now the question is why did you go behind her back and read the text? And what are you going to do about this new info?
Second.....If you think what you done was ummm....WRONG maybe you could try this.
" Babe, how do you see my family? What do you think of them?" Get a fill for her honesty. Perhaps she would tell you.
Either way, trying to have a relationship while going behind someones back is just not good!
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