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Originally Posted by HMc
Huh? You don't make nice with people you don't like because it's easier or as a favour to someone else?
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It all comes down to trust. If he swallows this, it's just going to grow like a cancer inside of him, until he just blows one day on her, and this and all the other things he's been holding in rushes out. Even in the OP, he claims the things she was saying were "vicious" from his point of view, so it's best to hash this out, imo, before it spirals out of control, provided he wants to really save this relationship.
After all that is said, he needs to understand why it was he felt it necessary to sneak a peak at her texts. Did he have a legit reason to wonder about what she was saying, or is he taking out his bad past relationships on her?
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Originally Posted by Saul Good
So much bad advice in this thread...
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By all means, offer up some "good" advice. I'm sure Jim Jones would appreciate all input right now.