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Originally Posted by jd1020
Nothing is going to solve this trust issue...
The OP admits to being "paranoid from past relationships" and "never seeing this side of her."
So he's really had no reason to snoop through her text messages and the only reason he did was because of someone he used to date that has no connection to this new girl what so ever.
Ya'll want to turn this into an issue on the girl because she doesn't like his mothers cooking but is still going to play nice and have Christmas with them, yet we wouldn't even know she didn't like his mothers cooking unless dipshit didn't snoop through her phone.
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And you want to act like there is no duplicity on her part.....
Trust is a big issue here I don't disagree. But so is lying and acting like it's ok just because he shouldn't have caught her because he was snooping. She is damaging the relationship on a level just as serious.
I'll ask the same question that has been asked before....if she is lying to him about how she feels about his family, what else could she be lying to him about.