I'm not actually sure. I spent $3-400 on the wife. I know she spent about $300 on me. I'm sure she dropped a couple hundy on the older kids. Didn't get much for the 5 month old kid. She bought personalized stainless drink bottles for all the cousins and made a bunch of pictures transposed on scrap wood for the adults in the family. Priceless memories there accomplished for about 10 hours labor, $30 in craft materials, and a few dollars worth of printer ink. I'm proud of her. Our haul was far greater than we put out.
But most importantly, we had all the siblings and cousins at my parent's house all day and nobody scratched anybody's eyes out.